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Event Friends

Event friends

20180901_175745Fancy a theatre trip but have no one to go with? Looking for someone to go on holiday with?

The main way of connecting our members to each other is via the one to one matching servicebut togetherfriends also offers paid up members the opportunity to find companions for particular activities via our eventfriends page. 

It works like this. Submit the event on this togetherfriends page and members who are interested can message you directly.  

Here are our latest requests:

  • Member in Bristol - Does anyone in Bristol want to meet for a cuppa tea or wine and look at some regular activities, like walks or trips out?
  • Member in Chatham, Kent - Love to meet local people from Maidstone, Walderslade, Aylesford, Rochester for coffee and a chat and maybe organise some days out.
  • Member in Banbury - Looking to set up a group in Banbury, Oxfordshire for meals out, theatre, walks and any other activities of interest.
  • Member in Thirsk, North Yorks -  I have just moved to the lovely market town of Thirsk, and would love to meet new friends for coffee and chats.
  • Member in Cornwall - Looking to meet for coffee and chat in the West Cornwall area - St Ives, Penzance, Hayle. I don't drive but happy to travel locally. 
  • Member in Cambridge - Would any of you fancy meeting up in Cambridge for a chat over coffee or lunch?
  • Member in Cheadle - Looking for friends in the Stockport, Tameside and South Manchester area. I'm a very young 63, enjoy holidays, shopping and live music
  • Member in Derby - Anyone in the Derby area fancy coffee and cake?
  • Member in Slough - Looking for anyone who fancies meeting up for a coffee and a chat, on a regular basis, in the Slough/Windsor area. I don’t drive but happy to travel to nearby areas so we could meet up halfway.
  • Member in Croydon - I am looking to create a group who are happy to meet several times a month for weekend trips, visits to museums, arts and crafts, markets etc.
  • Member in Perthshire - Anyone free to meet for a chat - walk and maybe lunch or something? - in and around Stanley - Perth

  • Member in the Wirral - Anyone fancy a coffee/lunch and chat in Wirral?
  • Member in Romford - I’d love to make friends in Romford and the surrounding areas for socialising, exercising, coffee, shopping etc.
  • Member in Newark -  Looking for local friends - preferably Newark/Lincoln areas who would like to go to Nottingham or Lincoln to concerts/shows. There are many motown/soul/musical events I would like to go to but not to travel or go on my own. 
  • Member in Brighton - Are there any travel companions out there who would like to holiday in Scotland for a week or so, to include some walking and view the great scenery?
  • Member in Darlington/ Middlesbrough - Anyone in Darlington or Middlesbrough area free for coffee and a chat?
  • Member in Bideford -Is anyone interested in playing badminton with me? I'm always on the lookout for someone who enjoys badminton as much as I do but is also totally unfit and no longer as agile as I was once upon a time.
  • Member in Hull - Looking for a ladies who struggle to go out due to childcare or ladies who would love to have fun despite age. I am feeling lonely and because I moved to this country I have no family here. 

Group events

We also offer togetherfriends group events for subscribed members, where local members organise regular events in a particular area. 

Is there a group in your area, or would you like to host a group? 

  • Banbury, Oxfordshire - Looking to set up a group in Banbury, Oxfordshire for meals out, theatre, walks and any other activities of interest.
  • Oldham - regular monthly get togethers planned.
  • Ilkley, West Yorkshire and surrounding area – offer monthly walks with lunch/coffee.
  • Chester - It would be great to get to know each other over easy going coffees, lunches & dinners:-) Please get in touch if you would like to find out more!
  • York – offer monthly coffees, lunches and trips to the theatre
  • Hertfordshire - coffee and cake meetups
  • Sussex - regular coffee/cake/chat sessions and local walks in Mid Sussex - sometimes further afield. 
  • SW London and Surrey - lots planned, make contact with the host in the London requests below.

 To make contact with the hosts, go to the post under the appropriate county and send a message.

If there is no group in your area, but you would be interesting in hosting one, email [email protected]

How to...

1) Login to your account 

2) Click on 'submit a request' on the eventfriends page

3) Write your request and submit for approval. Once approved it will appear under the appropriate county

1) Login to your account

2) If subscribed, click on the request that interests you and type a message

3) The member making the shoutout will receive an automatic email alerting them of your message

Take a look at what is on offer in your area! 

Shout Outs

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Travel Shout outs Click to expand

Richmond Upon Thames

Member from Richmond Upon Thames looking for potential travel companions to expand on her networks. Preferably aged 30 plus and I would like to at least meet up first to see how we get on before embarking. I aim to go away on August Bank Holiday so it would be great to meet up before then to see how we get on.

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Hi all<br />
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Anyone interested in art, drawing with different mediums and painting with water colours in this group?<br />
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If anyone feels like a chat about art or just in general over Zoom or WhatsApp please do get in touch.<br />
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Look forward to hearing from you.

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Date: 27th Aug 2022
AUGUST London Meetup. The August meet up is on Saturday 27th August. We are having a picnic in Hyde Park. We are meeting at 12:15 at the Albert Memorial. (if the weather is bad we will likely retreat indoors) Bring your own food, although nibbles to share are also very welcome. If you'd like to attend please let me know. - Lucy

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Hi any ladies out there in the Derby/Nottingham area who would like to meet up for drinks/chat/dog walks/lunch etc would love to hear from you


Any ladies in the Derby area looking to have a chat with a view to possibly meeting for a coffee/ drink?

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Hi ladies! Any weekend, anyone fancy meeting up in Lincoln or Nottingham to meet people and hopefully make new friendships? Just thought city centre is easier as lots of options for nice cafes / bars etc in both Nottingham and Lincoln to meet up.
Very easy going and good sense of humour is all that’s required. Hope we can meet up soon x

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Hertfordshire Click to expand


Anyone in the Watford area fancy meeting up for coffee


Hi I'm new to this website & wondered if anyone would like to meet up for a coffee and chat?


Date: 5th Aug 2021
Coffee and cake - first meeting!
Redbourn (J9 M1)
10.00 - 12.00 am
Please come - garden if fine, socially distanced inside if not. Get in touch if you would like to join me.


Hi there. Looking for friends for coffee and chat, mutual interests days out etc..I live in Cheshunt, Herts. I don't mind travelling I drive.

Cambridgeshire Click to expand

St Ives

Does anyone want to meet for coffee/glass of wine in or near St Ives?


Date: 12th Apr 2022
Does anyone want to go and see Celeste (young British soul singer) at the Corn Exchange in Cambridge in April? I have an extra ticket.

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Hi, I would like a nice female friend age 40s in Chelmsford or near to go to events with. Halloween 30th and Christmas events. Must be outgoing ,fun, and sensible.

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Ickenham uxbridge

Looking to make friends and meet up for coffee, cinema, theatre days out etc

Richmond Upon Thames

I'm from Richmond Upon Thames and I would like to meet up with people closer to my age or older (I'm 34). I would like to meet people who have a common interest in travelling (both UK and abroad), going to sights of interest such as cities, parks or markets and going on walks. If that sounds like you, don't hesitate to contact me. Looking forward to hearing from you.


Dear All. I'm looking to set up a group for central London outings once a month? For coffee, art galleries, museums, theatre, restaurants, walks, crafting, (and more) and then maybe more adventurous activities like dancing, yoga, maybe even some ice skating in the winter? A monthly outing for fun and a bit of a chat really? Message me if interested. - Lucy


Calling ladies of North London (Barnet/Finchley and surrounding areas) I would like to set up a monthly meet up for a meal out and/or cinema. I'm a 43 year old professional and I don't have any children (by circumstance). I enjoy swimming, gym, and travel (when funds allow!) I hope to get a nice group going.

London and Essex

Hi, looking for ladies who are free during weekdays in the daytime and are interested in getting together post lockdown for pub lunches/drinks, coffee and chats, walks, eating out, matinee theatre, exercising, spas, exhibitions etc. I live in Waltham Forest soon to be moving to nearby Romford, so London and Essex dwellers preferably. Message my inbox if you're up for it.

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Member in Stanley, Co. Durham, would like to meet people in the county - radius of approx. 12 miles for meals out, walks etc. see my profile for more interests.

North West Click to expand

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West kirby

I am new to this. Anyone in Wirral fancy a coffee & chat?


Anyone fancy an afternoon in Liverpool? Lunch and a few cocktails?

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Chester/ Ellesmere Port/ the Wirral

Date: 26th Mar 2022
Lunch at the Architects, Chester this Saturday has been cancelled. Hope to arrange another lunch soon. Contact me if interested.

South Wirral/Chester areas

Group event - It would be great to get to know each other over easy going coffees, lunches & dinners:-) - Please get in touch if you would like to find out more!

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Dumfriesshire Click to expand


Anyone who would like to go for a coffee/chat or a walk around my area.

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North Lanarkshire

Anyone free to meet for a chat - walk and maybe lunch or something? - in and around Stanley - Perth - PH1
I work in area and would be nice to meet and connect with others


Shout out - I'm working in Stanley -- Perth -- PH1 - anyone free to meet up for a chat and coffee and make my breaks exciting and fun?- I don't live in area - all be it not too far away

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Would anyone in the Livingston area be willing to form a group of ladies for social activities, coffee, walks and genuine friendship?
Please message me if interested.


Retired lady would like to meet friends for theatre, cinema coffee and trips away Edinburgh, West Lothian area

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Hi My Name Lorraine New to this site .<br />
Looking to make new friends . To go for walks Travel eating in or out cooking Opera.


Hi I live in Cobham, Surrey. Between Kingston and Guildford. I am very fit and active late seventies. Looking to make new friends interested in most things. Theatre, Walks, lunch coffee and chat. London trips. I especially would like to meet somebody similar age group ( I act more like I am 60) to join me on solos holidays. Maybe Riviera or One traveller this country or short flight trips. Not brave enough to go alone but desperately in need of holiday after events of last two years which included losing my husband. Hoping to her from somebody I can have a laugh with. Marian


Hello there - would anyone be interested in being a travel buddy? I would like to make a trip to Paris on the Eurostar sometime, mainly to see some art galleries.
I have just joined this site - so if anyone fancies a coffee/ glass of wine / walk/gallery visit do get in touch.


Hi ladies, I'm 61 and looking to find new friends in and around the Guildford area. Although we can't meet in these difficult times at the moment I wonder if anyone fancies messaging and chatting that way with a view to eventually being able to meet for a walk, coffee or lunch. Take care and keep safe Lyn x

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High Wycombe

Hi my name is Joanne. Is there anyone on here from High Wycombe or surrounding area, who would like to meet up to socialise, coffee and chat, cinema, theatre, meals out? Would be really nice to hear from you
Hi ,Looking to meet ladies in Buckinghamshire to make friends with, for theatre, meals out, walking and general socialising

Milton Keynes

Would like to meet for coffee, drink & a chat, late afternoon evenings or weekends, any excuse to get out of the house and be sociable


We are all living through difficult times just now, so not easy to meet up for coffee etc. This time of year can be quite lonely for some.
Is there anyone in South Bucks who might like to FaceTime chat or email with a view to possibly getting together once restrictions are lifted
Kindest regards. Jenny.

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A friend of mine who creates wonderful soya candles and well-being products is organising some beautiful 2/3 day retreats at a gorgeous house and grounds near Canterbury. The aim is to destress and you can do as much (or as little) as you wish. What a great thing for our mental health. The one I was interested in is almost booked up but if there is a lot of interest she would look to try and organise one just for us either this year if availability or next year. She needs a minimum of 10 people and a maximum of 16. If you are interested please PM with your phone number and email address and I can give you more details. I have put Sidcup as that is where I live but the event is in Canterbury


I am looking for new friends in the Sidcup and surrounding areas to meet up evenings or weekends for coffee, cinema, day trips.

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Looking for friends who'd like to meet up for regular, short social walks (bookended with refreshments) in the Sussex countryside/South Downs and/or at National Trust and other Gardens. Based in Mid Sussex and around West/East Sussex/Brighton areas initially. Come and join in!
Group event - Join me for regular coffee/cake/chat sessions and local walks in Mid Sussex - sometimes further afield.
Let's create some new friendships!

Berkshire Click to expand


Hi, looking for new friends to meet up in Newbury area for walks, with or without dogs, coffee and chat, pub lunches, cinema/theatre, be nice to meet up and have a laugh

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Would love to arrange regular outings in the Clevedon and surrounding areas, brunches and lunches and all things delicious in between. If you are interested please let me know.


Anyone in Clevedon, N Somerset interested in meeting for a walk, sports activity, and/or coffee/drink in the pub?

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Hi looking to meet for coffee and chat in the West Cornwall area- St Ives, Penzance, Hayle. I don't drive but happy to travel locally. Be good to hear from you.

Dorset Click to expand


Looking to meet up with single people in the area as having moved back after some years away finding I have all married friends.?

West Midlands Click to expand

Shropshire Click to expand


Does anyone near Telford fancy meeting up for coffee and a chat. Perhaps arrange other meetings and/ activities.

Worcestershire Click to expand

Tenbury Wells WR15 8HQ

Date: 24th Nov 2022
Would those members who are near Leominster Herefordshire like to meet for a morning coffee at<br />
Burford House and Garden Centre. It is a good place to meet with nice food and coffee and plenty of space. Meet just inside the restaurant. 11am.

West Midlands Click to expand


Ladies who'd be interesting in meeting up to go jogging/running/walking with.


Hi ladies. Have just joined up and looking for ladies to have regular lunches and casual days out. At some point would be nice to have some nights out maybe to cinema or theatre or just casual drinks. Still little cautious after lockdown but in time I'm hoping things might get little easier. If you feel this might be you feel free to send me message and hopefully we could soon start to have some fun.

Staffordshire Click to expand


Hi anyone wanting to get out for a walk and take in some much needed fresh air?

Yorkshire and the Humber Click to expand

North Yorkshire Click to expand


I live in Harrogate I looking to meet new friends for walks and outings


You are invited to regular monthly coffee mornings and lunches in York centre. Please message me for more information

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Looking for friends based in our around Sheffield to share walks in The Peaks.

South Humberside Click to expand

Barton upon humber

Hi, I'm moving to Barton upon Humber in a few weeks, I don't know anyone please read my profile and if it suits please do get in touch...cheers everyone.

North Humberside Click to expand


Anyone around my area fancy meeting up and maybe arranging theatre trips? I do go solo but it would be nice to be able to chat about the play/musical/comedy etc. during the interval or at the end