Fancy a theatre trip but have no one to go with? Looking for someone to go on holiday with?
The main way of connecting our members to each other is via the one to one matching service, but togetherfriends also offers paid up members the opportunity to find companions for particular activities via our eventfriends page.
It works like this. Submit the event on this togetherfriends page and members who are interested can message you directly.
Here are our latest requests:
- Member in Bristol - Does anyone in Bristol want to meet for a cuppa tea or wine and look at some regular activities, like walks or trips out?
- Member in Chatham, Kent - Love to meet local people from Maidstone, Walderslade, Aylesford, Rochester for coffee and a chat and maybe organise some days out.
- Member in Banbury - Looking to set up a group in Banbury, Oxfordshire for meals out, theatre, walks and any other activities of interest.
- Member in Thirsk, North Yorks - I have just moved to the lovely market town of Thirsk, and would love to meet new friends for coffee and chats.
- Member in Cornwall - Looking to meet for coffee and chat in the West Cornwall area - St Ives, Penzance, Hayle. I don't drive but happy to travel locally.
- Member in Cambridge - Would any of you fancy meeting up in Cambridge for a chat over coffee or lunch?
- Member in Cheadle - Looking for friends in the Stockport, Tameside and South Manchester area. I'm a very young 63, enjoy holidays, shopping and live music
- Member in Derby - Anyone in the Derby area fancy coffee and cake?
- Member in Slough - Looking for anyone who fancies meeting up for a coffee and a chat, on a regular basis, in the Slough/Windsor area. I don’t drive but happy to travel to nearby areas so we could meet up halfway.
- Member in Croydon - I am looking to create a group who are happy to meet several times a month for weekend trips, visits to museums, arts and crafts, markets etc.
- Member in Perthshire - Anyone free to meet for a chat - walk and maybe lunch or something? - in and around Stanley - Perth
- Member in the Wirral - Anyone fancy a coffee/lunch and chat in Wirral?
- Member in Romford - I’d love to make friends in Romford and the surrounding areas for socialising, exercising, coffee, shopping etc.
- Member in Newark - Looking for local friends - preferably Newark/Lincoln areas who would like to go to Nottingham or Lincoln to concerts/shows. There are many motown/soul/musical events I would like to go to but not to travel or go on my own.
- Member in Brighton - Are there any travel companions out there who would like to holiday in Scotland for a week or so, to include some walking and view the great scenery?
- Member in Darlington/ Middlesbrough - Anyone in Darlington or Middlesbrough area free for coffee and a chat?
- Member in Bideford -Is anyone interested in playing badminton with me? I'm always on the lookout for someone who enjoys badminton as much as I do but is also totally unfit and no longer as agile as I was once upon a time.
- Member in Hull - Looking for a ladies who struggle to go out due to childcare or ladies who would love to have fun despite age. I am feeling lonely and because I moved to this country I have no family here.
We also offer togetherfriends group events for subscribed members, where local members organise regular events in a particular area.
Is there a group in your area, or would you like to host a group?
- Banbury, Oxfordshire - Looking to set up a group in Banbury, Oxfordshire for meals out, theatre, walks and any other activities of interest.
- Ilkley, West Yorkshire and surrounding area – offer monthly walks with lunch/coffee.
- Chester - It would be great to get to know each other over easy going coffees, lunches & dinners:-) Please get in touch if you would like to find out more!
- York – offer monthly coffees, lunches and trips to the theatre
- Oldham - coming soon...
- Hertfordshire - coffee and cake, first meetup on 5th August in Redbourn
- Sussex - regular coffee/cake/chat sessions and local walks in Mid Sussex - sometimes further afield.
- SW London and Surrey - lots planned, make contact with the host in the London requests below.
- Pocklington and Beverley - coming soon...
- Hampshire - local Hayling group of like minded ladies, for mutual support as well as laughter, conversation, tea and cake.
To make contact with the hosts, go to the post under the appropriate county and send a message.
If there is no group in your area, but you would be interesting in hosting one, email email@example.com
- post an eventfriends request:
1) Login to your account
2) Click on 'submit a request' on the eventfriends page
3) Write your request and submit for approval. Once approved it will appear under the appropriate county
- reply to an eventfriend request:
1) Login to your account
2) If subscribed, click on the request that interests you and type a message
3) The member making the shoutout will receive an automatic email alerting them of your message
Take a look at what is on offer in your area!
Anyone fancy a Campervan get together?
Hi - Are there any travel companions out there who would like to holiday in Scotland for a week or so, to include some walking and view the great scenery?
Let me know if you are interested and we could plan it together.
A trip to the Yorkshire Sculpture Park? Anyone interested in a trip to Yorkshire Sculpture Park? 11am -3pm ish depending on weather. The cafe will be open for takeaways. I have been a few times before but there's lots to see and it's a beautiful place to relax.
Tickets are £6 per person. Tickets are available at the moment. Current government guidelines request a maximum of 6 people can meet outside.
79 year old looking for local friends for short weekend breaks
Member aged 79, living in Oxford area would like to meet someone for maybe short weekend breaks, going to the theatre, concerts or out for a meal to see how we got on at first.
Hi, I'm Claire. I'm looking for new friends near to my own age 23. Would love to get coffee with someone new.
Hi I am looking for local friends - preferably Newark/Lincoln areas who would like to go to Nottingham or Lincoln to concerts/shows. There are many motown/soul/musical events I would like to go to but not to travel or go on my own. I find it easier to go by public transport rather then to drive to Nottingham but it is impossible to get the last train back to Newark/Lincoln due to finish times & distance to the station so I usually come back on the last bus to Newark, driving home from the station car park. Please message me if this would interest you, maybe have a meal/see a show. Regards Ann
Hi, are there any members in the Derby area who would like to meet up for meals out, probably walks etc, basically have some fun? It has been very tough because I was widowed in January; miss my lovely husband. So if any ladies in a similar position, it’d be lovely to get out. Angela.
Hi, if there’s anyone in the Derby are who would like a chat with a view to meeting up for coffee and probably walks, days out etc. I’m not many miles from the city.
Hi, anyone in the Derby area fancy coffee and cake?
Hi, I’m Kym. I live in the Peak District so would be great to meet up for walks , I’m more the amble and talk type! I know things are tougher atm but happy to break the ice with a coffee/wine - call to set up something soonest. I love long chats and I can promise a good sense of humour!
Louth, Alford, Horncastle, Grimsby, Cleethorpes, Mablethorpe
I'm happy to meet up for coffee, wine, beer, or lunch in Lincolnshire. I'm NE of the county so not too far from South Humberside, East Yorkshire, and East Nottinghamshire also.
Hi there. Looking for friends for coffee and chat, mutual interests days out etc..I live near Boston. I don't mind travelling I drive.
Hi there, single mum looking for that chance to feel like an adult again and have some fun.... coffee chats, country walks and the odd glass of wine and good film night out once allowed.
Hi, looking for a like minded companion for the odd night out, meet for coffee, shopping trip and lunch, dog walk etc x
Hi there, anyone in the Norwich area fancy meeting up in the city (or nearby) for a cuppa & a chat?
Anyone live around Loddon, who'd be interested in meeting up? :-)
Hi, I would like a nice female friend age 40s in Chelmsford or near to go to events with. Halloween 30th and Christmas events. Must be outgoing ,fun, and sensible.
Hi everyone, I’d love to make friends in Romford and the surrounding areas for socialising, exercising, coffee, shopping etc. If you’re interested, just message ?
Would any of you fancy meeting up in Cambridge for a chat over coffee or lunch?
Date: 22nd May 2021
Hi, I'm Naomi (29) and I was wondering if anyone in the 26-35 group from Cambridgeshire, Bedfordshire and parts of Hertfordshire would like to chat over text/zoom and maybe arrange a coffee/walk outing? I've recently moved to the area and have been struggling to meet and get to know people. I also have a car so I'm happy to drive :)
Date: 5th Aug 2021
Coffee and cake - first meeting!
Redbourn (J9 M1)
10.00 - 12.00 am
Please come - garden if fine, socially distanced inside if not. Get in touch if you would like to join me.
Hi, I live in Ware. Would like to meet new friends for coffee and chat.
Hi there. Looking for friends for coffee and chat, mutual interests days out etc..I live in Cheshunt, Herts. I don't mind travelling I drive.
Are you into nature and wellbeing/ pampering/ aromatherapy? I like to do woodland excursions, a different style of Qi Gong (oriental exercise like tai chi), and if you’re into women’s spirituality e.g, crystals, positive affirmations, and any of the other stuff, get in touch.
Hi, Anyone interested in hanging out going to the gym, for long walks, spa weekends or catching a comedy? I would love to hear from anyone who like me loves to laugh, doesn't take life too seriously, likes the outdoors and likes being active.
Please get in touch if that's you.
Hi everyone, I am setting up a new group in South West London/Surrey - do let me know if you would like to join? Regards Elizabeth
Hi I'm looking for friends (there I've said it and I don't feel ashamed) I am also trying to create a group that promotes empowerment, spirituality, and wellbeing for women. I'm into nature and pampering so have incorporated this into my group. We do things like woodland excursions/ bathing, a different style of Qi Gong, pampering, cleansing, crystals, positive affirmations etc. To find out more, please do send me a message.
Hi, I am trying to put a walking/socialising group together in South West London - probably about 6 - do let me know if you might be interested?
Hiya...am Brenda and am looking for people that I can be friends with, learn from, have fun and meaningful experiences with and above all, be a part of their social life. Making and creating friends is my utter most reason for joining the network, am a very out going person but since being here, have been really self isolated even before Covi-19, haha?, so am not blaming the virus. Am just trying to fit in and find my social ways of life in the uk. I shall be very happy to get messages from any one on the platform here and will create time to be in touch always. Thanks
South East London
Hi everyone. I am looking to start up a group in South East London for walks, afternoon/evening drinks/lunches general socialising and travel. If you are interested please message me! Look forward to hearing from you.
Looking for like minded fitness enthusiasts. I have recently discovered cross fit and there are a lot of events I would be keen to attend (as a Spector) and would be great to attend with someone else who loves all things fitness related. Happy to travel in the U.K. for events as they are worth it! Get in touch if like me fitness is a passion of yours!
Calling ladies of North London (Barnet/Finchley and surrounding areas) I would like to set up a monthly meet up for a meal out and/or cinema. I'm a 43 year old professional and I don't have any children (by circumstance). I enjoy swimming, gym, and travel (when funds allow!) I hope to get a nice group going.
Hi , I live in Woolwich, South east London. Looking for friend to go out restaurant, pub. tea & nice chats, I can travel to central London.
Date: 24th Jul 2021
I am new on here and looking to create a group who are happy to meet several times a month for weekend trips, visits to museums, arts and crafts, markets etc., a bit of walking and doing of some sports even.
I am 51 and looking to help sisters feel they have a better work life balance, can relax and enjoy some free time away from the hustle and bustle of city work etc.
Hi, my name is Joanne and was wondering if any girls aged around 30 would me interested in meeting up in Dartford/Greenhithe area ? recently moved to the area so don't know many people :-)
London and Essex
Hi, looking for ladies who are free during weekdays in the daytime and are interested in getting together post lockdown for pub lunches/drinks, coffee and chats, walks, eating out, matinee theatre, exercising, spas, exhibitions etc. I live in Waltham Forest soon to be moving to nearby Romford, so London and Essex dwellers preferably. Message my inbox if you're up for it.
Hi are there any members who live in or close to Billingham?
Anyone in Darlington or Middlesbrough area free for coffee and a chat?
Looking to make new friends in Darlington area for lunches out, shopping, lazy days or adventure days, weekends away
Do you fancy a coffee or lunch in or around Morpeth? Nothing arranged yet but contact me and we can arrange something. Look forward to having a good chat and getting to know new friends.
Hi, does anyone fancy walk/coffee and breath of fresh air?
Anyone free for a coffee & a chat? I'm Laura (43), and I was wondering if anyone would like to chat over text/zoom or meet for a coffee & chat/walk/outing? I'm a single mum & I've been struggling to make new friends. I don't drive but can meet locally.
Oldhamer aged 52, wishes to meet local women for evening and weekend meetings, any events considered.
Just moved to Nantwich, anyone else nearby who would like to meet for a coffee/walk?
Looking for friends in the Stockport, Tameside and South Manchester area. I'm a very young 63, enjoy holidays, shopping and live music
South Wirral/Chester areas
Group event - It would be great to get to know each other over easy going coffees, lunches & dinners:-) - next meal out on 23 October - Please get in touch if you would like to find out more!
Hello, anyone living in the Stockport area that fancies walking?
Hi, I would like to meet people for walks in the countryside, not hikes, slow walks. I'm in Stockport
Hi, I’m Mandy age 61, joined today. Looking to extend my social life and meet genuine honest friendly people for coffee , chats , lunches or walks. I like going to local National trust places.
Anyone fancy an afternoon in Liverpool? Lunch and a few cocktails?
Hi anyone interested in going for a walk and a natter?
Hello! Is there anyone over the age of 65 in the Glasgow area, and you would like walks or some communication during this lonely time, socially distanced of course!! Please give me a shout. Best Wishes Maureen
Would anyone in the Livingston area be willing to form a group of ladies for social activities, coffee, walks and genuine friendship?
Please message me if interested.
Retired lady would like to meet friends for theatre, cinema coffee and trips away Edinburgh, West Lothian area
Anyone want to meet up for events/ friendship around Slough / Langley area?
Hi there-finally took the plunge and became a fully paid-up member of togetherfriends.
Looking for anyone who fancies meeting up for a coffee and a chat, on a regular basis, in the Slough/Windsor area. I don’t drive but happy to travel to nearby areas so we could meet up halfway. Hope to hear from you
Hi, looking for new friends to meet up in Newbury area for walks, with or without dogs, coffee and chat, pub lunches, cinema/theatre, be nice to meet up and have a laugh
Looking to set up a group in Banbury, Oxfordshire for meals out, theatre, walks and any other activities of interest.
I would like to meet other like minded ladies for walking, going out for a meal/drink, shopping, cinema and theatre. Please message if you would like to connect.
Now we are coming out of lockdown it would be lovely to meet up maybe for a walk or coffee to make a new friend. Hopefully to find some mutual interests?
I'm a single mum (53) looking to meet new friends in the Chipping Norton area, NW Oxfordshire. I'm an artist and work on my own, so would love to meet up for drinks in the pub, meals out, cinema, whatever!
Love to meet local people from Maidstone, Walderslade, Aylesford, Rochester for coffee and a chat and maybe organise some days out.
Hello, anyone in the North Kent area fancy meeting for coffee, lunch, a walk, a trip to somewhere interesting....Please get in touch.
I am interested in meeting local people for cinema, chat about books, coffee, shopping, open to ideas! Fellow Greys anatomy fans?
Hi, my name is Joanne and I was wondering if any women in their 30s from Greenhithe/Dartford and Bexley area would like to chat over text/zoom and hopefully meet up one day ? :-) Hope to talk to you soon
Looking for ladies to chat, email and zoom call with and eventually meet for a coffee and chat :)
During these weird times are there any friends who would like to text, email, Zoom etc and then meet for coffee when we are able?
Hi, I live in Maidstone and would like to meet friend for coffee, lunch, days out, cinema and so on. I'm an animal lover.
Looking for friends who'd like to meet up for regular, short social walks (bookended with refreshments) in the Sussex countryside/South Downs and/or at National Trust and other Gardens. Based in Mid Sussex and around West/East Sussex/Brighton areas initially. Come and join in!
Group event - Join me for regular coffee/cake/chat sessions and local walks in Mid Sussex - sometimes further afield.
Let's create some new friendships!
I am based in Horsham - it would be good to meet up and have coffee and chats?
Hi all, I am trying to put a walking/socialising group of about 6 together in South West London/Surrey to share the ending of lockdown and to enjoy each others company.
Kingston upon Thames
Now there's light at the end of the tunnel and we can look forward to a lovely Summer, I would love to get in touch with people for the odd natter, coffee, lunch, Sunday roast etc!
If you're feeling a bit like most of us do at the moment, it would be lovely to hear from you.
In the meantime, stay safe and well (we haven't got long to go now hopefully!)
Hi ladies, I'm 61 and looking to find new friends in and around the Guildford area. Although we can't meet in these difficult times at the moment I wonder if anyone fancies messaging and chatting that way with a view to eventually being able to meet for a walk, coffee or lunch. Take care and keep safe Lyn x
Hi, I am a 59 year old female interested in meeting new friends aged between 45-70 and living in the greater Brighton/Hove, Saltdean, Peacehaven areas. I enjoy music, cinema, walking with my dog, chatting with friends and going for coffee or gin with friends.
Hi looking to meet for coffee and chat in the West Cornwall area- St Ives, Penzance, Hayle. I don't drive but happy to travel locally. Be good to hear from you.
I am looking for friends 50 plus in West Cornwall. Penzance, Helston and in between. I am active, friendly and an animal lover. Would love to hear from you!
Hi. I am looking to meet some lovely new friends in and around Cornwall for coffee, lunch, cinema, theatre, day trips. I am 56 years old and single. I am a friendly person. Hope to hear from you soon.
Does anyone in Bristol want to meet for a cuppa tea or wine and look at some regular activities, like walks or trips out ? We could meet initially to see who is interested and take it from there?
Does anyone in Bristol area want to meet up for a walk and a coffee or wine?
Are there any ladies would like to meet up for a coffee and chat on weekends in Bristol?
Hi I'm Joanne, new to the site and looking to meet friends in the Bristol or surrounding area, for chats, outings, dog walking and more. Please get in touch. Thank you. Joanne
Is anyone interested in playing badminton with me? I'm always on the lookout for someone who enjoys badminton as much as I do but is also totally unfit and no longer as agile as I was once upon a time.
Hi ladies. I moved to Devon from Leicestershire just before Covid hit so it’s hard to meet new people. I live not too far from Bideford and have transport if anyone would like to have coffee or a glass of wine. I’d love to develop new interests and would love to meet like minded folks.
Hi would like to find someone that likes to go to pop concerts, & or butlins holiday camps & or bingo!
Looking to meet up with single people in the area as having moved back after some years away finding I have all married friends.?
Hi, When lockdown has ended who would like to go out for a drink?
Date: 1st Apr 2021
When we can, it would be lovely to go for a walk, have a coffee and a chat. Will we remember how to do all that? If you are near to my location and you are as hopeful as I am, we can eventually do this. Please get in touch.
Stay safe everyone.
Bradford on Avon
Hello, I’m new to this site, so a bit unsure. Is there anyone around the Bradford on Avon, Trowbridge, Warminster, Bath areas, who would like to meet up for coffee and chat?
Hi I’m new to this site. Anyone in the South Wales area or anywhere else near enough who would like to meet up? Somewhere central for lunch/coffee/walk and chat? It would be great to meet you.
Best wishes Jill
Hi all, anybody nearby fancy meeting up for a cuppa/lunch/night out? And if we get along, maybe getting kids together during the holidays for nature walks/soft play/parks etc? I have a five year old and a young teen.
Stoke Bliss (holiday home)
Hello Ladies, I'm free during the week daytime/evening as husband works away. If you are interested in meeting up for coffee, pub lunch, visiting heritage sites, garden centres, gentle walks (made for comfort not speed!) please contact me.
Fresh start, new friends ! Looking for ladies aged 45+ in the Rugby area.
Interested in coffee, fair weather gentle walks, nights out/in, cinema, theatre, shopping.....lots of laughing. GSOH essential
I have just renewed my membership in the hope that next year we will be in a position to make arrangements to meet up and make some new friends. However, in the mean time, should anyone need/like a walking companion do let me know. I must add that I'm a fair weather walker. Cold is Ok but hate walking in the rain.
Hi ladies. Have just joined up and looking for ladies to have regular lunches and casual days out. At some point would be nice to have some nights out maybe to cinema or theatre or just casual drinks. Still little cautious after lockdown but in time I'm hoping things might get little easier. If you feel this might be you feel free to send me message and hopefully we could soon start to have some fun.
Would like to hear from anyone, interested In coffee mornings, lunch events, spa weekends, cocktail evenings, general chitchat, friendship & support. Please feel free to message me
Hi!!! Ladies.. Would you be interested in holding a smells alike designer fragrance party? &an opportunity to make new friendships through networking..Please get in touch..
Hi!! All.. Would like to hear from other togetherfriends for..Coffee meeting.. Shopping trips.. Dinner&dance events.. Wine bars..Spa days..general chit chat
Hi all, looking to join a book group or coffee and chat group. Is anyone looking for new members or would like to start one in the area?
Hello I'm Chrissie. I live in Dudley. I'm looking for friends in and around Dudley, Tipton, Himley, West Bromwich. Bilston, Wednesbury for shopping, coffee, chats, day trips like wildlife parks, car boots. Love cute toy dogs, would love to hear from someone
Date: 15th Oct 2021
Hi, is anyone interested in going to the pub this weekend, or in the future? I live in Keighley.
Hi. I'm looking for people for coffees out, trips to the theatre, dog walks etc. I'm in Leeds but willing to travel a little bit would be lovely to hear from you X Clare
I live in Garforth, Leeds LS25. I enjoy walking and I'm looking for a companion with the same interest to join me for regular walks, a chat and coffee etc. when its permitted. Anyone interested??
Yorkshire Women Write - Looking for women interested in developing their creative writing foray. Looking for support to develop a daytime group. Face to face group preferred rather than online. We can share our work; workshop from prompts; attend writing festivals whatever group members wish. Are you want to take prep for submitting to a competition or publisher? Let’s share the journey together
Group event - Come and join me for a monthly coffee in Ilkley, West Yorkshire or for a walk in the local countryside
Hi, wanting to meet new friends, I'm from the LS25 area of Leeds but originally from the WF-Castleford/Wakefield area. Would love to chat with anyone, this pandemic thing is driving me mad lol.
Thirsk & surrounding villages
Hi, I have just moved to the lovely market town of Thirsk, and would love to meet new friends for coffee and chats. Please get in touch with me if you would like to meet up.
Hi, new to the area and would like to meet people to go for coffee/ lunches/ drinks and generally explore the area now we are allowed! If anyone is in/ around York/ Beverley way, feel free to message!
You are invited to regular monthly coffee mornings and lunches in York centre. Please message me for more information
Kingston upon Hull
Date: 18th Jun 2021
Looking for a ladies who struggle to go out due to childcare or ladies who would love to have fun despite age. I am feeling lonely and because I move to this country I have no family here. Would love to create one.
Hi, Would anybody like to meet up and just do whatever we fancy, drinks, lunches, evenings out, walking in the countryside, seaside even? I would like to lead a healthier outdoor lifestyle now after the year we’ve had. To start exploring new places and having new adventures. And if anyone likes swimming, it would be nice to go with someone. I will start up again when opened up.
Hi, anyone want to meet up for a coffee and maybe a bite to eat at any of the garden centres around West/East Yorkshire one afternoon through the week ?
Hey! I'm Megan, 30 and living in Sheffield but originally from the South. When times are safer, I usually like going to the theatre/cinema or out for coffee. In the meantime, would be nice to meet people virtually or start a book club or some sort of group etc.