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Event Friends

Fancy a theatre trip but have no one to go with? Looking for someone to go on holiday with?

togetherfriends offers paid up members the opportunity to find companions for particular activities.

It works like this.  You fancy going to the theatre to see a particular show but don't want to go on your own.  Submit the event on this togetherfriends page and members who are interested can message you directly about it.  

You may be looking for a theatre companion, a tennis partner, a cinema friend or a travel companion.  You may be looking for a walking partner. There may be something you have always dreamed of doing but have no one  to go with.

Members below are looking for companions to join them for a particular activity.  You need to be a paid up member to make or reply to a request. Please login to your account to do this.

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Travel Shout outs Click to expand


Hi, I’m Joy, live near Sale in Manchester, I live alone and am looking to meet genuine friends to get together for short weekend breaks.


I like to be spontaneous sometimes in doing things, and I have always wanted to see the Aurora Borealis and there is still time to see them. I have found a five day tour to Finnish Lapland which seems really organised, includes snowmobile and husky safari,etc., the price also includes flights from the UK and also transfers. Anyone out there with the time and enthusiasm for this? At present time not sure which airport they leave from. If anyone is interested we can talk about it more in depth.


Hello ladies...
DO U FANCY A CABIN IN SWEDEN OR A BEACH SOMEWHERE MAYBE ASIA OR AFRICA OR EVEN MEXICO? Come on ladies be adventurous? I'm dreading Christmas this year and really would like to get away with a few like minded women from the UK... I don't mind where we go but please message me via the site. We can decide between ourselves where we go okay?

79 year old looking for local friends for short weekend breaks

Member aged 79, living in Oxford area would like to meet someone for maybe short weekend breaks, going to the theatre, concerts or out for a meal to see how we got on at first.

Weekend breaks

I am a 50 year old lady living in Staffordshire. I would love to go on short weekend breaks with other members.

Avon Click to expand


Hello everyone! As we all face some difficult and uncertain times ahead, there is no time like the present to have contact with others. Although we can't meet up socially, we can virtually. If anyone is interested in getting in touch, please contact me via this site, Take care and stay safe x
Are there any ladies would like to meet up for a coffee and chat on weekends in Bristol?
Would you like to meet up for coffee and cake (or something healthy) in Bristol? There are lots of lovely coffee shops and would be great to visit with some lovely company - weekends are best.
Hi I'm Joanne, new to the site and looking to meet friends in the Bristol or surrounding area, for chats, outings, dog walking and more. Please get in touch. Thank you. Joanne

Berkshire Click to expand


Date: 18th Oct 2019
Anyone want to go to the London yoga show with me?


Hi, looking for new friends to meet up in Newbury area for walks, with or without dogs, coffee and chat, pub lunches, cinema/theatre, be nice to meet up and have a laugh

Buckinghamshire Click to expand

High Wycombe

Looking for friends who would like to go to the cinema or theatre


Looking for friends especially if there are any Malaysians out there for friendship, outings, coffee and social

Cambridgeshire Click to expand


Anyone like to go for coffee or more?


New to area. I live in Peterborough and wondered if anyone fancy meeting up for coffee and a possible walk around the town. I am free most days expect Fridays unless arranged.

Cornwall Click to expand

St. Keyne. Nr. Liskeard

Hi. I'm looking for someone who might be interested in weekends/weekdays away to pretty parts of the county, or further. There are plenty of deals to be had, and it just needs a likeminded person to go with to make it a great experience. Message me if it "ticks your box".

St Columb

Hi. I am looking to meet some lovely new friends in and around Cornwall for coffee, lunch, cinema, theatre, day trips. I am 56 years old and single. I am a friendly person. Hope to hear from you soon.

Devon Click to expand


Hi there,
Is there anybody who loves some exercise of something?!! Or just a chat, etc.. go to the cinema or theatre etc...? I live in the Tavistock area. I don’t mind travelling a little distance.xx
Date: 15th Jan 2020
Hi there ladies,
Does anybody live near Tavistock who just wants to out for a nice coffee/ tea/whatever and a chat etc. I would like to meet a circle of lovely friends
Hi there, I’m Christine. I would just like to get to know people in my area and to have a circle of friends, it would be nice!! Xx


Hi there,
Does anyone live in around the Exeter and want to meet up for cinema visits, coffee, wine, chat? Ideally garden visits with like minded friends especially at the dreaded weekends! It would be good to get a circle of friends to go places with. Tricia


Hi, I'm 45 mins west of Exeter and it would be great to meet up with anyone for a chat and a coffee as an ice breaker. Have car and happy to travel a reasonable distance. Lets be brave!

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Dedham. Colchester, Essex

Date: 31st Jul 2020
Does anyone fancy meeting for a drink tomorrow evening ?
Date: 31st Jul 2020
Does anyone fancy meeting for a drink tomorrow evening ?

Dedham. Colchester, Essex

Hi there, does anyone fancy becoming part of a drinks chat group, maybe meeting at different destinations to take into account where people live?


Anyone interested in a once a month meet up for dinner or a drink near Chingford? Gerry


Hi, I’m looking for friends in the Essex area, Braintree preference but don’t mind meeting up for coffee, chats, cinema. If you fancy the same please get in touch or contact me on my profile x


Hello. I am looking to expand my circle of friends. I am Poppy so take a look at my profile and if you fancy a meet and chat that will be good.

South Woodham Ferrers

Hi, My name is Lynda. Living in South Woodham Ferrers. Looking for a new circle of friends for evenings out, coffee, cinema etc.

Hampshire Click to expand


I live in Hedge End, but know Portsmouth very well. If anyone fancies a chat over coffee and preferably cake please get in contact. I’m a very young looking and feeling 59 year old


Date: 17th Feb 2020
Hi. Anyone in Chandlers ford, Romsey, Winchester, Southampton? Wishing to meet up for coffee/chats just get together. Girlie shopping and laughs.


Hi, I am divorced and have a new partner, but its a long distance relationship. When we are not together I want to be making new girly pals in my area for a drink or a coffee and even a quick lunch.

Hertfordshire Click to expand


Hi, Anyone fancy coffee and lunch in and around Rickmansworth, Ruislip, Harefeld, Croxley, Watford? Would be great to meetup!


Kent Click to expand


During these weird times are there any friends who would like to text, email, Zoom etc and then meet for coffee when we are able?
Date: 2nd Nov 2019
Hello Ladies,Thinking of organising another coffee morning. Please message me if you’re interested in coming along and we’ll come up with a venue.
Hello ladies, Recently joined the site and wondered about organising a coffee morning one Saturday morning so we can break the ice and get to know each other. Let me know if you’re interested and We can come up with some dates and a venue. Thanks
Hi, I live in Maidstone and would like to meet friend for coffee, lunch, days out, cinema and so on. I'm an animal lover.

Lancashire Click to expand


Hi I'm Pat. Been feeling really fed up and isolated as I am sure most of you ladies on here have. Now we have been given a bit of freedom!! Does anyone fancy a day trip out somewhere? I'm going stir crazy! i live in Lostock, Bolton. x


I live in Lancashire and am looking for new friends


Hi Joined today and I'm looking for new friends to socialise with who live in and around Fylde Coast or Lancashire. To enjoy days out, Lunch, breaks away or just coffee and chat ? x


Hi, I'm Nicola, 50. Joined today and I'm looking for new friends to socialise with who live in and around Greater Manchester and Lancashire. Looking for honest, genuine, lifelong friends to socialise with on a regular basis. I enjoy the cinema, theatre, music, live bands, shopping, walking, eating out, charity shops, spiritualism/mind body spirit fairs. Look forward to hearing from you.


I am thinking about becoming National Heritage member but would like to go with someone who also enjoys going to places like that. If someone has a card or was going to get one anyway please make contact.
I love looking at the old houses, gardens and such, having a walk and a bite to eat.
If anyone likes going for a walk please let me know. Such places such as Rivington, Haigh Hall, parks, along the canal. Open to other places also :-)
Being out doors is good for the soul!

Nr Rochdale

Hi i live in the Rossendale valley- looking for friends for girly days, chats, nights out, meals out, general socialising. Have a look on my profile page.


Hi, anyone like badminton? I live in the Standish area but would love to meet up and play a few games. Also would be good to go out for a few glasses of wine or lunch sometime.

Leicestershire Click to expand

Great Glen

Hi all, looking for friends to see art exhibitions (London is my favourite), theatre, cinema, or just a drink or a dog walk.

Lincolnshire Click to expand


Hi there. Looking for friends for coffee and chat, mutual interests days out etc..I live near Boston. I don't mind travelling I drive.

London Click to expand


Hi I'm Sharon, looking for someone interested in going on a beach holiday for 7 days or more, not fussy about where as long as its warm, also interested in exploring the local area ,sightseeing etc.


Hi I'm Trish and I'm looking for an Irish friend, 55+, to go to see Irish Music Bands etc and to generally have a good laugh. If you're interested please do contact me for a cuppa and a chat.


Calling all crafty ladies! I'd love to join any card making classes if possible (or anything crafty really (except knitting or sewing as I'm rubbish at both!), or possibly anything to do with nature, horticulture, making things etc would be great too. Needs to be in the evening or on a Sat as I work full time. I live in E4 so anything near(ish) I'm happy to try. Thanks.

Merseyside Click to expand


Hi, looking to make new friend for coffee and chat, meals out and perhaps holidays when we can. Look forward to hearing from you, Wendy
My name is Wendy, looking for friends to go on holiday with in this country, this year. I'm 71. Look forward to hearing from you.
Hi, my name is Wendy. Looking for friends for days out or weekends away. A week abroad would be nice but not this year.
Hi All, my name is Amy. I am 39 and looking to increase my social circle for nights out, shops trips and general conversation.


Hi My name is Lisa. I am looking to make new friends that enjoy chats, coffee, nights out, hiking etc.

North Humberside Click to expand


Hi, anyone want to meet up for a coffee and maybe a bite to eat at any of the garden centres around West/East Yorkshire one afternoon through the week ?


Hi would anyone in the East Yorkshire area fancy meeting up for a coffee and maybe other social activities?

North Yorkshire Click to expand


Looking for new friends to go for coffee or walks or a few days away

Byram cum Sutton

Hi everyone. Up for a coffee, chat, garden centre, gardens, anything. Walk alongside the river, York centre. Lots of places for lunches. Thurs ,Fri, Sat or Sunday's. Any time.


Looking to meet likeminded ladies for coffee, lunch, cinema, drinks out, walks, just chatting and having fun. I’m free most daytimes and some evenings. I’m 45 and happy to meet people of all ages, its just a number right? Please get in touch x
You are invited to regular monthly coffee mornings and lunches in York centre. Please message me for more information

Northumberland Click to expand


Hi, Anyone fancy Coffee/Lunch when possible! Hopefully sooner than later. Live near Hexham in Northumberland, 58 and looking to make new friends the more the merrier.

Powys Click to expand


Date: 15th Aug 2020
Hi, Would anyone like to meet for a coffee or go for a bite to eat. Would be lovely to meet some other members. x

South Yorkshire Click to expand


Hi, I'm Helen and I'm looking to make friends to go for a coffee and a chat or a film. I do love the theatre
Hi, I'm Helen and I'm looking for friends to hang out with chat with, and possibly travel sometime


Hi, looking to make new friends, anything from walking, nights out and weekends away.
I get every other weekend free and I want to start getting out more.
Hi. I’m looking for a walking/ swimming buddy as I’m looking to get fitter and lose weight. I’m very unfit at the moment so no Olympic class athletes please. I’m in North Sheffield


Hi, anyone near Doncaster who like me is fed up, especially at the weekends and fancies a day out/weekend away etc? Give me a shout please!

Surrey Click to expand


Hi ladies, I'm seeking new friends for coffee, lunch, days out, walks, country pub as an occasional reward !! I love people watching and animals /nature. Take care, Trish x

Warwickshire Click to expand


Anyone interested in forming a friendship group in Warwickshire making a regular meet up say at the end of the month for a meal out /to the theatre /pictures/concert?


Would anyone like to meet up early evening for a drink as a group in a nearby venue that I can arrange?

West Lothian Click to expand


Would anyone in the Livingston area be willing to form a group of ladies for social activities, coffee, walks and genuine friendship?
Please message me if interested.


Retired lady would like to meet friends for theatre, cinema coffee and trips away Edinburgh, West Lothian area

West Midlands Click to expand

Birmingham and Wolverhampton

TAROT READING - I'm hoping to arrange social get-togethers for people who wish to learn the Tarot. People who wish to volunteer for a reading are also welcome. There is no charge. Meetings will take place at cafe bars in Birmingham and Wolverhampton city centres. Please get in touch if you are interested.


Hiya everyone
I came out of a relationship recently and although I kept up with my current friends ... I seem to have more time than them even though I work full-time and go to the gym. I would like a friend(s) that I could get on with really well so most things would be fun. I am well-travelled, lived in various places in the UK and in Berlin. I have a dry sense of humour and energy.
I am a teacher and theatre maker. Used to do shows and still sing.
I like most culture in the cities and people watching and window shopping. I love the country and sea. Would love to have the odd weekend away.
Hi all!
Would like to hear from anyone, interested In coffee mornings, lunch events, spa weekends, cocktail evenings, general chitchat, friendship & support. Please feel free to message me
Hi!!! Ladies.. Would you be interested in holding a smells alike designer fragrance party? &an opportunity to make new friendships through networking..Please get in touch..
Hi!! All.. Would like to hear from other togetherfriends for..Coffee meeting.. Shopping trips.. Dinner&dance events.. Wine bars..Spa days..general chit chat


Hi all, looking to join a book group or coffee and chat group. Is anyone looking for new members or would like to start one in the area?


Hello I'm Chrissie. I live in Dudley. I'm looking for friends in and around Dudley, Tipton, Himley, West Bromwich. Bilston, Wednesbury for shopping, coffee, chats, day trips like wildlife parks, car boots. Love cute toy dogs, would love to hear from someone

Sutton Coldfield/Lichfield

Hello - I am looking to meet new friends in my area for a drink, or a coffee, perhaps the theatre, days out, a meal out etc
I am looking to meet other ladies who would like to go on holiday both here in the UK and abroad. Please get in touch if you would like to meet up.

West Yorkshire Click to expand


Hi - I’m Marion, I’m 68 and I live in Leeds. I thought it would be a good idea to join togetherfriends during this time of isolation and distancing - a good chance to meet friends online and have a chat. Does anyone fancy chatting online and perhaps building friendships during this time?
Hi, looking for new friends in the Leeds area! Would be nice to meet up for shopping, chats and good laugh..... message me if you want to meet up, free most days and some nights

Baildon shipley

Date: 31st Jan 2020
Hi, Does any one fancy going to Salt Cellar in Shipley on Friday night? There's a soul singer on. It's a good night. Message me if your interested, thanks.


Date: 17th Apr 2019
Fancy a walk around Fewston? I think it's about 4+ miles . Nothing strenuous, just a walk and a chat.

Wiltshire Click to expand


Hi, anyone around Swindon, Cirencester, Malmesbury and surrounding areas who likes country walks, days out, days away and meeting up for coffee and a chat?